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Winnipeg Free Press (Newspaper) - September 26, 1955, Winnipeg, Manitoba Page 4 Winnipeg free press monday september 26, 1955 f gift from the the nature of Good relationships does this not mean great turning it around in my w by Anne Morrow Lindbergh Oman must come of age by herself. This is the essence of coming of age to learn How to stand alone. She must learn not to depend on an other nor to feel she must prove her strength by competing with in the past she has swung Between these two opposite poles of dependence and Competition of Victoria ism and Femin ism. Both extremes throw her off balance neither is the Centre the True Centre of being a whole woman. She must find her True Centre alone. She must become whole. She must it seems to Erie As a prelude to any two solitudes relationship follow the advice of the poet to become world to oneself for another s in fact i wonder if both Man and woman must not accomplish this heroic feat must not Man also become world to himself must he not also expand the neglected sides of his personality the Art of inward looking that he has Sel Dom had time for in his Active outward going life relationships which the he Persona has not had As much Chance to enjoy the so called feminine qualities aes thetic emotional cultural and spiritual which he has been to rushed to fully develop perhaps both men and women in Ameri Ca May hunger in our material outward Active masculine Cul Ture for the supposedly feminine qualities of heart mind and spirit which Are actually Nei ther masculine nor feminine but simply human qualities that have been neglected. It is growth along these lines that will make us whole and will enable the individual to become world to himself. And this greater wholeness in each person this being world to the Roar of an aircraft engine during ground test can rattle windows and nerves for blocks around. So we re glad to report that aluminium has turned up As a noise absorbing Honey comb in an aircraft company s test cell. Hundreds of aluminium tubes of differing diameters and lengths filled with absorbent sound baffling material make up the end Walls. And we Are told that by the time the giant Roar has bounced around in these aluminium mazes it comes out the other end thoroughly baffled and weakened to a hum. We expect there Are lots of aluminium boosters around that factory company of Canada Ltd. Alcan All in one general units. Available in Gas or electric in every Combina Tion. Wonderful for apartments rumpus rooms summer Camps trailers factories hotels morels offices Coffee rooms for Complete details phone 93-0341 Winnipeg Supply does this not mean greater self sufficiency and therefore inevitably greater separation be tween Man and woman growth it is comes differentiation and separation in the sense that the Unity of the tree trunk differentiates As it grows and spreads into limbs branches and leaves. But the tree is still one and its different and separate parts contribute to one another. The two separate worlds or the two solitudes will surely have More to give each other than when each was a meager half. A Complete sharing Between two people is an writes Rilke and whenever it seems nevertheless to exist it is a Nar rowing a Mutual agreement which robs either one member or both of his fullest Freedom and develop ment. But once the realization is accepted that even Between the closest human beings infinite Dis Tances continue to exist a wonder Ful living Side by Side can grow up if they succeed in Loving the distance Between them which makes it possible for each to see the other whole and against a wide Beautiful image this is a Beautiful image but who can achieve it in actual life where has one seen such a marriage except in a poet s Cor Respondence it is True that Rilke s two solitudes or Macmurray s fully personal relations los Are As yet somewhat theoretical concepts. But theory precedes exploration we must use any signposts that exist to help us through the wild erness. For we Are actually pioneers trying to find a new path through the Maze of tradition convention and Dogma. Our efforts Are part of the struggle to mature the Conception of relation ships Between men and women in fact All relationships. In such a Light every Advance in under standing has value. Every step even a tentative one counts. And though we May Seldom come upon a perfect Argonaut life Cycle we have All bad glimpses of them even in our own fives for Brief periods. And these Brief experiences give us insight into what the new relation might be. On this Island i have had such a glimpse into the life of the Argonaut. After my week alone have had a week of living with my sister. I will take from it one Day. I shall examine it set it before me As i have set the shells on my desk. I shall turn it around like a Shell testing and analysing its Good Points. Not that my life will Ever become like this Day a perfect one plucked out of a Holiday week there Are no perfect lives. The relation of two Sisters is not that of a Man and a woman. But it can illustrate the essence of relationships. The Light shed by any Good relationship illuminates All relationships. And one perfect Day can give clues for a More perfect life the mythical life maybe of the argon Auta. Wonder of the world we Wake in the same Small room from the deep sleep of Good children to the soft sound of wind through the Casu Arina Trees and the gentle sleep breathing rhythm of Waves on the Shore. We run Bare legged to the Beach which lies smooth Flat and glistening with fresh wet shells after the night s tides. The morning swim has the nature of a Blessing to me a baptism a rebirth of the Beauty and wonder of the world. We run Back tingling to hot Coffee on our Small Back porch. Two Kitchen chairs and a child s table Between us fill the stoop on which we sit. With legs in the Sun we laugh and plan our Day. We Wash the dishes lightly to no system for there Are not enough to matter. We work easily and instinctively together not bumping into each other As we go Back and Forth about our tasks. We talk As we sweep As we dry As we put away discussing a person or a poem or a memory. And since our communication seems More important to us than our chores the chores Are done without thinking. And then tip work behind closed doors neither of us would want to invade. What release to write so that one forgets oneself for gets one s companion forgets where one is or what one is going to do next to be drenched in work As one is drenched in sleep or in the sea. Pencils and pads Stid Curling Blue sheets alive with letters Heap up on the desk. And then pricked by hunger we Rise at last in a Daze for a late lunch. Reeling a Little from our intense absorption we come Back with re Lief to the Small chores of getting lunch As if they were lifelines to reality As if we had indeed Al most drowned in the sea. Of intellectual work and welcomed the firm ground of physical action under our feet. On the Beach after an hour or so of practical jobs and errands we Are ready to leave them again. Out onto the Beach for the afternoon where we Are swept clean of duties of the particular of the practical. We walk up the Beach in silence but in Harmony As the. Sandpipers ahead of us move like a corps Ballet dancers keeping time to some Interior rhythm inaudible to us. Intimacy is blown away. Emotions Are carried out to sea. We Are even free of thoughts at least of the articulation clean and Bare As whitened Driftwood empty As shells ready to be filled up again with the impersonal sea and sky and wind. A Long after noon soaking up the outer world and when we Are heavy and relaxed As the seaweed under our feet we return at dusk to the warmth and intimacy of our cot Tage. We sip Sherry at Leisure in front of a fire. We Start supper and we talk. Evening is the time for conversation. Morning is for mental work i feel the habit of school Days persisting in me. At Ter noon is for physical tasks the this is the eighth install ment of one of the most discussed books of our time Anne Morrow Lindbergh s Best seller gift from the sea out of door jobs. But evening is for sharing for communication. Is it the uninterrupted dark expanse of the night after the Bright Segmen Ted Day that frees us to each other or does the infinite space and infinite darkness Dwarf and chill us turning us to seek Small human Sparks not for too Long. Because Good communication is stimulating As Black cof fee and just As hard to sleep after. Before we sleep we go out again into the night up the Beach under the stars. And when we Are tired of walking we lie Fiat on the Sand under a bowl of stars. We feel stretched expanded to take in their Compass. They pour into us until we Are filled with stars up to the brim. This is what one thirsts for i realize after the smallness of the Day of work of details of intimacy even of communication one thirsts for the magnitude and universality of a night full of stars pouring into one like a fresh tide. A wonderful Day and then at last from the immensity of interstellar space we swing Down to a particular Beach. We walk Back to the lights of the cottage glowing from the dark Mist of Trees. Small Safe warm and welcoming we recognize our pin Point human match Light against the Mammoth chaos of the dark. Back again to our Good child s sleep. What a wonderful Day i think turning it around in my hand to its starting Point again. What has made it so perfect is there not some clue Here in the pattern of this Day to begin with it pattern of Freedom. Its setting has not been cramped or time. An Island curiously enough gives a limitless feel Rig of both. Nor has the Day been limited in kinds of activity. It has a natural balance of physical intellectual and social life. It has an easy unforced rhythm. Work is not deformed by pressure. Relation ship is not strangled by claims. Intimacy is tempered by lightness of touch. We have moved., through Pur Day like not need ing to touch More than lightly be cause we were instinctively mov ing to the same rhythm. Copyright 1955, by Anne Morrow Lindbergh published by arrange ment with pantheon books and King features Syndicate Len the next instalment of gift from the sea Anne Lindbergh continues her discussion of the nature of Good relationships. Japan to build liners Tokyo a Japan s biggest pre War shipping firm londay announced plans to build two trans Pacific luxury passenger liners next year with government funds. Nippon Yusen Kaisha said the two liners would be govern ment owned but leased. Construction costs Are set at each. French playwright dead Paris a Emile Fabre playwright and longtime adminis trat Pir of the comedies Francaise died sunday after a Long illness. He was 86. My answer by know a Christian should t feel As i do but since my wife died life seems in Seless. How can i find courage to go on is always hard for us to be separated from those we love. Don t apologize for your grief or try to Bury your loneliness. Go to an understanding Friend and share your sorrow. You la be surprised ail How much you la feel. The Bible says blessed Are they that mourn for they shall be Matthew Jesus is the Best Friend of All. Open your heart to him. He is always by your Side. Listen to his words of reassurance let not your heart be troubled i Wiir Pray the father and pie shall give you another comforter that he May abide with you John 16 if you ask Christ hell Tell you How to again find purpose in life. I m sure heaven seems nearer to you than Ever before. Let this Spur you to spend More time on those things which have eternal value. Meaningless activity will never cure your heartache. Find someone in need and help him. Find someone who is lonely and let him know he has a Friend. The Joy you bring into the lives of others will be in your own. Steer Riding is something usually reserved for bucking events at the rodeos but Farmer Sam Way proves that a gentle steer makes a Nice mount. Sam rides the steer at fall fair in Milford ont. Not Only that the steer got a prize for being the outstanding item of the parents Comer teen age hoodlums Richmond Barbour Don t make the mistake of thinking teen age hoodlums Are something new. Bad As they Are we be had worse. Young hoodlums made history in the 1700 s and 1800 s. Did you know that there were teen age Hood Lum gangs in Boston before the Tea party. They got drunk. They attacked innocent people. They had fights on the Boston common. Law abiding folks locked their doors and sat trembling until the trouble was Over. Hoodlums were found in Early new York. They were one of reasons for the organization the first police Force. They had their fights. They committed murder rape and robbery. They. Burned buildings. The term hoodlum comes from the hoods gang members used to Wear to identify themselves. Hoodlums and their cohorts controlled things in san Francisco Unte the vigilantes drove them out. Mind you i m not excusing our modern Young toughs. They Are bad. They Are not Good. They should be rounded up. They should be put in Safe places and Given the treatment needed for rehabilitation. All i m trying to do today is get them into perspective. They re an old problem not a new one. I la go into detail about causes treatment and Preven Tion of hoodlum ism frequently during the weeks ahead. Hoodlums Are part of the picture of juvenile delinquency. My prediction is that Well have More outrages this Winter. 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