Winnipeg Free Press

Winnipeg Free Press (Newspaper) - February 6, 1965, Winnipeg, Manitoba Winnipeg free press saturday february 6, 1965 grass not always Greener by Andre Maurois of the academic Francaise it often happens that during the course of life we find ourselves at the Fork of two paths. A love is offered to is we must accept or refuse it. A Chance is Given us to take a Job we can take it or leave it. Very often once the Choice is made it is impossible to turn Back. The Lover has found another woman easier to convince the Job has Heen Given to a rival. Willy. Nilly we must pursue our route in the direction chosen. Without regrets not always. Many of Are made off the cuff because we Are in a hurry. We May have been misinformed or May not have had time to weigh the consequences and in Many cases a few words spoken in haste without knowing clearly Why we said them bind us for life. Then when the situation emerges More clearly when we discover the real character of the Boss for whom we have agreed to work or when perhaps the rejected suitor turns out to be a Fine Man and makes a Brilliant career Are Apt to give Way to an endless flow of complaints. Envious dreams if i had Only known if i had it to do Over again i have failed in there Are countless dreams of what could have been. We Are not Happy we envy our friends who have succeeded better and we groan and to think it is my own fault if at this Crossroads i had Only taken the right instead of the left Fork an easy enough tiling to today i would be another person loved Rich and no. This is a dangerous and fallacious Way of thinking. There Are Many reasons for believing that had you chosen the right Fork you would be just As unhappy today. Why because another Factor the most important one has not changed. It is your own nature. Happiness depends much less on events than on the Way in which we meet them. Of course there Are great misfortunes which Are difficult to Bear but most people s lives Are made up of a mixture of successes and failures. It is we and we alone who out of this impartial mixture can draw happiness or misfortune. Suppose that tomorrow a magician should say to you you cannot console yourself for having chosen the left Fork All right i will turn Back the clock and bring you Back to that Fork. There you will be free to choose and from that moment to Start your life Over what would happen probably1 a Little you would make the same mistakes which would Lead to the same difficulties because this is your character. Must regret nothing the moral of the Story it is that first of All you must Reform this dangerous element in your character rather than dream about what might have happened. Of what use is it to incessantly evoke this fatal Fork this inevitable Choice the magician who could take you Back to this Point does not exist. Above All you must regret nothing. It is not at All certain that this particular Fork was fatal and your Choice inevitable. On the right path you would have met hundreds of other Forks just As important where the Choice would have been just As difficult. So the important thing is not to deplore the path chosen but to make the most of what one finds there. Look a Little closer at this path. It has its Beauty and its Charm. Beautiful Oaks Shade it. Through the Trees one can perceive the Lovely Countryside. The ground is in Good condition. Flowers grow along the Banks. The truth is that both paths Are Good that All the paths Are Good if we Are faithful to our Choice and refuse to look Back. Coffee party tuesday by Catholic Council the Catholic women league St. Bernadette Parish Council will hold a luncheon and Coffee party from 11 . To 4 . Tuesday at Hudson s Bay fashion theatre. Msgr. Charle Desorey director of the league and mrs. Norman Cyr will re 1 chive. There will be a Sale of Home baking and handicrafts conveners Are mrs. Jack me Gurran and mrs. Roger Hebert. Workshop arranged for Square dancers the Manitoba Square dance federation will hold a work shop and dance feb. 13 in Wes ton school. The workshop will begin at . The dance will Start at 8 . With round dances and at with squares. All Square dancers Are invited to attend. Or. Harry c. Hall this Man is unique or. Hall is an Interior designer of rare Talent. A room Interior designed by Hall cannot be duplicated. To meet the heavy demand for his talents or. Hall commutes by Jet Between Points in Canada and the . We Are proud he has become a Penthouse associate. Have your office Interior or your Home enriched by the skill of the master designer. Once a Home has been exposed to or. Hall s talents it too be comes and will never again be duplicated. Me co for a March appointment phone we 2-0441 or visit the 6th floor 339 Portage Avenue. Boldly bowed turn a simple Little boy look into this enchanting coif so wonderful for that special gala. To set follow directions using medium rollers. Make sure All rollers Are turned smoothly to insure a Ireat comb out. Place one Row of clip curls at the Nape if hair is longer than shown in diagram. To comb Brush hair thoroughly to eliminate set lines. Back Brush Crown lightly and then Back and Down leaving at desired height. Brush sides Back and smoothly blend into Nape. Feather Bangs lightly from underneath and smooth into place casually touching the brow. Complete with headband tied in a huge Bow at the Nape. Hint is there enough fabric in the hem of your party dress to make a Matching headband Tobe says Courreges has Heads turning new York if you want a completely head turning new look this season try a Courreges inspired dress. The almost Stark simplicity of this look is As Young As can be but even on the not so Yonng it looks right. Its architectural crispness the smooth fabrics from Wor sted to Linen in which de signers Are interpreting this feeling the slightly extended shoulder line the unfitted but figure defining body line the Middle of the knee Cap length the typically Courreges like colors of palest Pearly Gray Pale peach palest Blue Mere tints of Green All add up to something that spells 1965. You could t have looked like this before. You must look like this now. It s terrific sorority election Zdenka Princic was elected president of i Beta Phi Soror Ity Manitoba Alpha chapter. Vice president is Kathy Taylor Secretary Gail Blower and treasurer Megan Thomas. Raise arms of breath Holder breath holding is behaviour which is More upsetting to the Mother than harmful to the child. However it is important for a baby to be examined by the doctor when he first acts this Way to Rule out physical causes. Usually it is a matter of temperament a baby who becomes very angry when he cries hard or a child whose temper Tantrum ends this Way. Mothers will be consoled by the knowledge that no one can breath Long enough to do himself harm. The child who persists tarns slightly Blue and becomes Semi conscious will quickly catch his breath mrs. R. K. Offers a method of preventing this extreme behaviour. Just raise the child s arms High Over his head when he begins to hold his breath and this will almost immediately help him to catch it. Such Essul living dear Doris i read not Long ago where a person who wore glasses a Long time looked awful without them. I do not think so because i took mine off arid All my friends told me i looked 20 years younger. Another problem is i have puffiness under my eyes. I tried rubbing a Salve All Over but Noth ing helps. Unhappy. Dear unhappy would you rather look "20 years younger or see As Well As a person 20 years younger glasses Aren t that bad and they come in attractive frames these Days. Horn rims Are better than head aches. The puffiness is a symptom Only your doctor can diagnose. Dear Doris my wife s twin brother died recently. We were All very close and my wife and i have received a number of letters of sympathy. Can we Send out cards of acknowledgement to our friends the widow tells me she is sup posed to answer All of them. We should like to be Able to answer the mail that has come to us personally. Brother Bob. Dear brother it would be rude not to. A sister and her husband have the right to mourn and to receive sympathy. I prefer per Sonal notes of acknowledgement rather than printed cards with stereotyped messages. Dear Doris since you Are a social worker i would like some information on How i could get a summer Job As a Camp counsellor. I know that it is rather Early to be ask ing about a Job but this Type of work interests me. I will be 16 in the Spring. Would i need some kind of experience Early Bird. Dear Early Bird it s not too Early. Many Camps like to have their staffs All lined up by easter. Direct your enquiry to the Ontario camping association 501 Younge Street Tor onto. Experience helps. Some Camps provide training on the Job. Some recreation departments and yes put the counsellor training ses Sions in the Spring. Ask about these where you Are. Dear Doris my neighbors have opened an excellent much needed Home bakery. From my own experience in receiving More change than i deserve nearly every time i shop i presume they Are being robbed either by people who Don t count their change i do and return what i or by people who walk about secure in the knowledge they obtained something for nothing. Is there any Liing i can do to help these friends collect their just due Good customer. Dear Good what an in Calcut ated risk learning to count change can be Learned much More easily than higher mathematics. As a privileged trusted Friend make a Point of discussing this with them. Once they see their plight offer to Drill the one who handles the Cash and1 persuade them to Check each other. Dear Doris our daughter plans to have three of four attendants at her wedding two of whom Are mar ried. Is it Correct to have two married girls in the bridal party if so How Are they referred to when writing up the wedding for the of Brede. Dear Mother quite Correct to have two. Per haps one will be Matron of Honor. Any others would be referred bridal a girl is not called a brides maid once she is married. Doris Clark is a trained social worker who has studied human behaviour and can help you live successfully. Write to her. Adult night classes Are now forming in i typewriting shorthand bookkeeping enrol for evening classes at the Success commercial College Portage Aue. 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Now time Only Al .50 your Choice of styles style bar prices slightly higher no appointment necessary Large staff beam Salon 309 Hargrove St. 2 doors North of Portage we 2-0289 elevator service this is surprisingly easy and j worked every time with my breath Holder. A paediatrician gave this advice to my sister in Law who passed it on to me. I Hope it will help others As it did no cold water thank you for the sensible suggestion of which i approve far More than others sometimes mentioned. I could not recommend throwing cold water on such a child for though it May Shock him into breathing it is too upsetting. A whiff of smell ing salts May do the trick but Only a whiff too much May be harmful. When the spell is Over a Mother s concern should be to avoid them when possible. With a baby this Means attention to his cries but Don t spoil my by catering to every whimper. This creates other problems. In spite of conscientious Loving care there Are infants who work themselves up easily who Are impatient for the bottle or fearful of the Bath and who vehemently protest and suck in their breath. Learn the cause parents with a two or three year old who has such fits of temper should try to determine what situations trigger them and when they occur. Often they can be avoided. A Little tolerance before lunch or at the of the Day May prevent a tired youngster from becoming frustrated and upset. This is no time to expose him to excitement new situations or to go to the mat with him for Misbehaviour. But All such situations cannot be prevented. Nor can a Mother ignore such extreme self punishment As she May be told to do for other temper tantrums. But she can be matter of fact in soothing him and firm in not giving in to him later. Thus he May learn that such antics get him nowhere. Dispel your fears and problems during the first six months a new baby is in your Home by Reading mrs. 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