Winnipeg Free Press

Winnipeg Free Press (Newspaper) - July 19, 1973, Winnipeg, Manitoba 20 Winnic i Hess. Thursday july 19. 1975 love is covering her when she Falls asleep on the sofa. In u 1 pol. I.hx.4 web i. Zoua is. A in a sum Mer Shower. Love is. Looking the other Way when she weighs herself. Dear Heloise i read your column of course who docs a Lois of Good ideas there for us. When 1 mail a package 1 enclose a self addressed card to be mailed Back so 1 know the package has been received. Isabel Metcalf dear Heloise i was about to discard my Lazy Susan when 1 decided to put it under my Large House Plant. Makes for easy turning. Mrs. . Wh1tcomb dear Heloise last week i cleaned out All my old faded and ugly coloured Nylon Hose including three new pairs i had bought on Sale but did t like the color. I grabbed my Dyc pot and threw in some Navy Blue not a whole package but just enough to tint. Presto i have the most Beautiful warm Greyed tones that blend with All colors. Even the dark Browns arc muted and blend better and the three new pairs arc the most Beautiful misty Grey just the color i look for but can t find in the stores today. Look out bargain counters Here 1 come now that 1 know what to do with those yellow beige Hose they have on Sale that nobody wants. Bless you Heloise i love your column. Gwen i could t believe it Gwen but 1 tried Jour hint hints from i i Heloise by Heloise Cruse and it works beautifully. I too like the Lovely Grey shades. Heloise dear Heloise when cutting the fat from steaks or Ham before Cook ing instead of using a knife use a pair of Kitchen Scis sors. It works easier and faster for me. Kathy dear Heloise did you Ever pour scented fabric softener in the toilet bowl it does t do much for the stains but the bathroom smells great Rose dw1ggins dear Heloise Don t throw away those old plastic credit cards i use them to make Collar stays for my husband s shirts. I can make several from one card. All you need arc your scissors. Easy and practical. Mrs. James d. Hanson dear Heloise we Are Beach nuts and every weekend finds us Down at the Beach. I discovered this idea and i know it will be a Relief to those who suffer the Long ride Back with Gritty Sand and Sticky Salt All Over them. Those three quart plastic milk Cartons Are easy to pack in a Carton in the Back seat or trunk of the car. 1 fill them with water and just before everyone gets into the car we take turns dumping the gallon contain ers of fresh clean water Over each other. Be sure to save a Little extra before you get in to Wash that last bit of Sand off your own feet. You d be surprised at How much belter you feel on the ride Home. Jan dear Heloise did you Ever Cook Rhu Barb and use the juice from a can of fruit such As peaches pears or cherries for liquid to Cook it takes away that too tart taste and gives it a Marvel Ous flavor. Some of the most Deli Cious pies my Mother Ever made were the combination of rhubarb and strawberries. Try that for a great treat mrs. J. Dear Heloise have you Ever tried adding one half cup of vinegar to the rinse water when washing plastic material it really helps to Lessen wrinkles when the plastic article is dry. S. C. True it really works. Heloise ask or. Brothers by or. Joyce Brothers dear or. Brothers i be been a widow for six years and in this period i be met three very attractive men with whom i be had much in common. Each time i have considered marriage but then always put it aside after More careful thought. Now i be met a Man i m deeply fond of and we have wonderful times together. Last month he proposed marriage and again i Felt that old chill come Over me. I m financially very Well off and sometimes it occurs to me that these men Are after my Money. This Man is independently wealthy also so the Situa Tion is somewhat different. I guess one thing that con Ems me is that i m now in my late 40s and while i still feel Strong sexual de sire i know this will soon be ebbing and i wonder if i really want a Man around in a physical sense. This Man is about my age and is very healthy so that he May Well be demanding Long after i m bored with the whole idea of sex. What then thus far i be not Felt any of the symptoms of change of life but i m wondering what my attitude will be when i do. A. D. Dear y. A first of All it s a commonly mistaken belief that women Ose interest in sex before men do. Usually it is the male s Oss of sexual capacity that auses women to lose interest in to cease having any sexual Cla Lions. There is no reason menopause should Blunt a woman s sexual capacity per Romance or drive so if you expect a sudden loss of interest in sex in a year or so you May be very much surprised. According to or. Sherwin Laufman a woman really has Hryce Ages her chronological go marked by the Calendar or physiological or biological be which is the condition of or body and her Psychol ical age How old she feels or cts. Sex is governed mainly y psychological factors but ome women report increased equal drive when they take Strogin the female hormone re quintly prescribed priced no and Dur Jig the menopause sex is often a sensitive Barm tar of emotional adjustment. If a woman s life has been generally disappointing a n unrewarding the chances Are that her sex life will gradually diminish during the Middle 01 late Middle years. Women May use or look Forward to Usini age As an excuse to Stop a practice they never really enjoyed. Women who have Spert much of their lives using sex As a manipulative weapon May find that sex has become unrelated to love and that it really holds no interest. Studies have shown that both men and women can enjoy sex Ual relations As Long As they live if there is no severe physical illness that makes sex unwise. As men and women grow older their interest in sex does not cease it simply slows Down and often passion is re placed with a new emphasis on tenderness. I think you must ask yourself i you really want to remarry. You May have been creating excuses for yourself such As the Man s being after your Money or More interested in he Money than in you merely o protect yourself from a Sec Ond marriage. Certainly there s no reason to get married if you Don t want to on the other land you should not let groundless fears Rob you of the companionship marriage can offer. If you do decide to remarry Lon t be afraid to have honest and open discussions about separate Bank accounts Lefore you walk Down the aisle. Your marriage has a much better Chance of Happi Ness if you express these con c e r n s before the marriage rather than after. Discuss and decide together what you wish o do about Money whether Rou each want to put aside a certain amount whether you vant a joint account or what ver you feel meets your Mutu in needs and desires. It does t matter How you resolve this As Ong As you reach a Clear agreement first. Rummage sales garage behind 473 Enniskillen Avenue West Kil Donan 7 to 9 . Thursday y the women s auxiliary of Brandeis Lodge. Garage behind 635 i Adam 1 to 8 . Thursday and Friday by Pioneer women s organization. For women Only by Lindsay r. Curtis . Dear or. Curtis my gynaecologist Lay should be Able to conceive without difficulty but my Hus band s sperm count is Low after he abstained for about five Days however his count builds up to almost nor Mal Levels. Would it be Possi ble to freeze and store enough of my husband s semen from these Peak healthy Norma periods to undertake Artificia if so what would be the chances for sue Cess m. B dear a yes it would be possible As miming the sperm ire other Wise Normal and healthy if they Are merely Low in num although we still Don t understand fully the effects of freezing on sperm or upon the resultant offspring the procedure has been employed successfully in some cases. As for your own chances of Success i can t really say i shout having More Partick ars. Check with your physician. Among other things he should be Able to Tell you whether sperm freezing and storing facilities Are available n your locale. Dear or. Curtis during my menstrual periods have such terrible cramps i literally want to die. I get so lick i develop a fever then Romit and run hot and cold. Whenever i think of marriage get nervous and wonder if my future husband will be in in standing. B. L. Dear a fortunately most women in your condition find motherhood he Ideal antidote. After the Xirui of their first child the menstrual cramps diminish markedly in most cases. In the meantime May i suggest that birth control pills often relieve painful menstrual periods. Menstrual misery docs re Luire understanding and Gen in Ness on the husband s part it you will be Wise to seek a Pouse with these attributes re Ardless of what your prob cams May be. Successful living by Doris Clark dear Doris at 58 i am a widow and very lonely especially for persons near my own age. Do you have any ideas How one could safely meet some unattached gentle Man or widowers 1 would Only be interested in someone who was really respectable. At a loss dear at a loss or. Wilder Penfield says there is a second career for every retired person. You Are retired in a Way Aren t you retired from being part of a two person team and just Tak ing care of yourself does t seem Worth while. To go by the statistics you have a Good Many years left to you and a philosophy of aging to take a look at. You can reach new friends via the work Way the Hobby Way or at evening classes. There is time now to work on latent interest or Talent that you never had room or time for before and in seeking 50th anniversary or. And mrs. Cornelius Frie in of 414 Hillary Crescent St. Ames Assiniboia. Will celebrate heir 50th wedding anniversary saturday with an open House reception . At Kirkfield Ark Baptist Church 618 Muriel Street St. James Assiniboia. Or. And mrs. Frieson vere married july 21, 1923, in Altona Man. And moved to Winnipeg in 1940. They have eight children and 19 grand children. Out the interest you will find others also seeking. This is your Best bet for contemporary companionship male and female. Then there is the correspondence service of the scientific introduction Centra in Toronto. A person located where you Are could be put in touch with a gentleman of Sim Ilar interests to carry on an interesting correspondence. Write to them at 18 Grenville Street Toronto ont. I can vouch for this service As being highly respectable and conducted by persons Well versed in psychology and human relations. Dear Doris after two years my doctor finally pinned Down my symptoms As being caused by hypoglycaemia. Even so he has not told me what can be done about it just told me to regu late my life accordingly and live with my symptoms. When 1 read your column today it seemed heaven sent. I be forgotten what it is like to feel healthy and Alert for any length of time so i m anxious o try the treatment and diet that no More four terrible years found helpful. I am enclosing 20 cents and the Enve Lope. If it works Doris i thank you with All my heart. You Are doing a great service with your column. 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