Winnipeg Free Press

Winnipeg Free Press (Newspaper) - February 2, 1976, Winnipeg, Manitoba 1 12 Winnipeg free press monday february 2, 1976 ask or. Brothers by of. Joyce Brothers dear bit. Mothers i be been married for four years Aud my husband still leaves me with a feeling of coldness and loneliness be cause he turns Over and goes to sleep almost immediately after we be made love and each time i feel As 1c he s moving out the next Day. I was Lociy As a child and i guess i m now dependent. I wish there were some Way to turn my husband into a cuddle. He is so Strong and seems to need nothing from anyone. Think this increases Iny feeling of dependency. It would seem absurd to consider Geltch a a divorce because your husband was cold but this has honestly crossed my kind. Am i being More demanding than i should k. M. Lir air a no but .1 wonder if you be talked to your husband about your feelings. Of Tai women Are shy about mentioning their physical or emotional needs and their husbands Are frequently surprisingly ignorant these since eve e r y o n e has dependency needs and most people want and like to be Fjeld and cuddled sometimes you should t hesitate to candidly express your feelings. I suspect that your Hus band May have spent a life time denying his own need dependency boys Are Brace. Your husband might be much happier and health Ier if he could accept and re Cognize this need Aud thus Nake you happier. Dear folks today we i How those of in your Schei cleaning set i attack. Most of the a House or Ai it appear ies with the full time hoi had a great Days free. Mrs. J. G an Over All i Lan Divide up one sees the who made arc going to Sec you who sent lines for House up your plan into four weeks. Before doing anything make a list of everything that must be done in hints from Heloise by w Heloise All dirty dishes in the sink rinsed or in water. Wait until you Are ready to do them. Insist All family members do the Call. So now i have a piece of paper by the phone and we each list the Calls when we make them. Dusting certainly has helped be will work on Arment. D that the lad schedules were me makers and c part of their Lucrest sent in outline that is for monday pick which room will be done in the first week the second and so on. Do the room of the week Well and the others lightly. Always Check your list of Ulings to be done. Weekly every monday and tuesday Wash and and thursday clean lightly in All rooms. Clean the special room of the week thoroughly. Friday tie up Loose ends. Kitchen sweep and mop clean oven refrigerator or pantry. Wash windows or clean curtains. I do one latter on Friday and saturday i prepare food for sunday and enjoy the family. Miscellaneous keep things in place. Clean the living room before going to bed. In the morning pick up what others might weak hel01se i share an apartment with two other girls and we All make a lot of Lon distance Calls. When the phone Bill comes it is absolute confusion trying it is time to figure out the Bill. E. Kutsche Are you Ever so right i roomed with three other girls in College and that phone Bill was really a mess to figure out. Heloise for often so indoctrinated with the thought thai they should be Strong and Independent that they begin Early in life to repress their needs for affection and love. Or. Marc Hollander of the University of Pennsylvania school of Medicine has observed that a oms May need to be cuddled somewhat More than men. After study ing the need for body Contact among humans he found that the majority of women Long to be hugged by a Man because it helps to reduce anxiety promotes a feeling relaxation and provides a sense of Security. He also bund that relatively few men meet this need and the result is that women become frustrated and anxious. Cuddling often can revive and improve a fading marriage. To. Fact some marriage climes especially those that Deal with sexual prob lems advocate cuddling. The heavy emphasis on instant sexual gratification has deprived some Young couples of the Joys of cuddling. It used to be a part of courting but often this in t the Case in today s world a group of sociologists did an Experiment with col lege students Aud discovered that males have a tendency to spread out while females Are More Apt of huddle to Gether. They Felt this was the result of different Environ mental backgrounds rather than any major personality differences. T h e typically greater emphasis placed on females for dependent and warm relationships Dur ing their development May make them Freer to cuddle and to express their need to be held. Before giving serious thought to a divorce make sure that you be examined your need and fully Dis cussed it with your husband. Encourage him not to be embarrassed about la s own de sires. One of the main ways to express affection love and warmth is through touch and it s important to recognize that this need not be sexual. Anthropologist Des mond Morris says that we All need to touch one another physically More that we All have a longing for these purity passivity and Comfort that were our first real experiences of life when we were floating in the womb curled inside a total pm today in history by the Canadian press feb. The worst North sea storms in 500 years flooded eng land s Southeast coast breached dikes in the Netherlands cml battered Belgium 23 years ago 1953. The death loll was 443 in Bri Tain 941 in Holland and 22 in Belgium. University chartered. 1861 Fraito Jion Egasquet treaty guaranteed Monaco s Independence. 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