Winnipeg Free Press

Winnipeg Free Press (Newspaper) - May 19, 1985, Winnipeg, Manitoba My predicts More women will die of lung cancer the b6ws Toronto Fey Floore Cana Dian women will die each year from of health and Donald Wigle said it will be the first titties this Century that breast cancer deaths among women Are exceeded by those caused by lung cancer which he says has become the top health problem in the death Fate from breast cancer has remained steady for about 50 years 24 deaths for every in of every women died from lung cancer the rate nearly doubled to in 1983 and will surpass 24 by Wigle Fertility rate drops teenagers Are hav ing fewer unwanted health officials reporting a nine percent drop in Fertility for girls Between 15 and 19 years of despite the reduction in teen agers pregnancy rates Are going the National centres for disease control the Fertility rate is the number of live the pregnancy rate com Prises live births plus Legal Abor the Centre reported that Fertility rates for females age 1519 fell from births per in 1974to 53 in a drop of nine per tire time births Rise after Rodeo Cal aft the Calgary Stam Pede a Fiat have had something to do with recent baby Boom in the says a Hospital without going into maternity wards at foot Hills and holy Cross hospitals were bursting at the seams during april and the first few Days of to explain the jump in births Susan director of nursing at holy said if you look Back nine months or what have you got we Felt we should have Given the babies Little red kerchiefs or the surge at Foothills and Grace came during the last week of april 287 Days after the close of last years 10day that is a Little longer than the Normal human gestation period of 274 to 280 but close enough to keep Hospi Tal officials fossilized Tusk found peking the fossilized Tusk of a giant elephant dating Back one million years has been found in i angst the which weighs 100 kilo Grams and is metres is the largest Ever found in Winnipeg free May 18 women Power linked to politics by Doug while Way who is the most powerful woman in the land Mila if youve Fead the Cut tent Flatte fifth articles about the prime ministers her it is is of the Pillow talk she has the Kings and can Wield Power by womanly Wiles in a Way Phyllis Schlafly would to All Tenney Kottie says theres no future for this anachronistic View of women the Toronto based writer the most powerful women in the land Are those who have achieved their influence through political processes of various employ ment minister Flora Liberal party president Loha Cam and Veteran nip Mem Ber of parliament Pauline Jewett the women who Best fill the Power Mulroney is certainly in a position to set styles and said in town recently to discuss her women of influence but in the context that Brian Mulroney is following the Reagan blueprint then Mila is parallel to Nancy Reagan her position is to stand by your Man and have your own Little cause like drug Shes not elected and As far As i Kome probes influence can she does what Brian tells her to it comes As no that Milas name Doest appear in the Index to women of those that do comprise a master list of those Ca Nadian women during the past go years since women became per have acquired and mobilized political sometimes for its own sometimes on behalf of other focusing particularly on the period since the the took holds As its premise that Long shut put of the political process despite the have built their own alternate structures and organizations with such Diligence that they Are now a discernible Public with their own Agenda and con a Public which political Par ties May ignore at their gender Gap gender Gap was the expression of both the 1984 Canadian and in each of the three main political parties scrambling to find a Posi Tion on women Kome int completely heartened by the much of the Active she was and has been to either coopt women or set up paper tigers to get women fight ing among the gender Gap itself May have been according to Public opinion tend towards Small Liberal ended with endorsing the a party considered to stand for things feminists Kome prefers to take a different there Are now 27 women members of nearly twice the number of the last she Points and that in itself is cause for cheer its been said Margaret Indira and Golda women who Rose to supreme Power in their respective have not acted any differently than the men who held the same Treyve even been deadlier than the in some on that there is no reason to believe women generally behave any differently in Power Given that the structures of Power remain the Kome she believes it can All come Down to after a certain if the num Bers of women in an elected body Are significant she wont say exactly what the be cause of women somewhat left leaning will begin to women in the she have been much More supportive of social welfare plans and currently Are aligned against such activities As cruise testing in can Ada to a greater degree than in Power in significant she women would enact a similar Kome says some women Are much More a com Mittee for composed of a num Ber of High profile is aim ing for a parliament half composed of women nine years and a Nia Dame prime minister in wife tells the other woman what lies ahead a f m f dear Ann Landers please print this letter to the other i know she reads your column every Day and she is entitled to this dear you know who you Are every reason to believe you Are having an affair with my the evidence your Telephone number was found in his Wallet last fall about the time a strange House key appeared on his key of he denies but dont they always if any additional coincidences occur i suggest you do the following d Clear out two Large closets for his clothes and have a room ready for his d be prepared to accommodate the total of his which he will operate from your he requires about Square feet for file d he will require a minimum of a Ann Landers week to his business is not profit d he will require a car on which you will be making the payments plus d you will absorb All household expenses including u be aware he has no insurance and will be excluded from coverage on my policy As soon As you both should know 1 have rewritten my should 1 he receives nothing that was not his before be aware that Dreamboat has been twice once then i came and now its i have every reason to believe his desire for variety will last be prepared to use your vacation time to entertain his you will launder and chauffeur they Are Boring and tiresome but you must be gracious at All if you All hell will break fool if you want this bum for your very own please move him in because Ive had his wife dear wife let me know if picks up on your id like to print the sequel after Shes had Dreamboat for six dear Ann Landers this is for the girl whose brother was putting himself through College by waiting on tables and was stiffed when a party walked out without that Young Man and others who wait tables should be aware that making an employee pay for walkouts is a violation of the fair labor standards since it would reduce the employees pay below the required minimum the College Stu Dent and anyone else who is forced to pay when Clea beats take a hike should Contact the nearest Federal wage hour office for dear Dorothy manager of Media relations at the National restau rant association in legally the restaurant cannot deduct from the waitress or waiters pay Cheque the Cost of the Tab when customers sneak Spring specials example living room triplane windows from 529 and up installed where Quality of sent Cost it pays for your Sheridan windows be estimate now at our Mew location Call 4775212 414 Gertrude answering clip save walk in medical centres f fort Garry Broadway pan am fort Garry walk in clinic 1180pembina 2645408 Broadway walk in clinic 640 Broadway 7757607 pan am walk in clinic 75 Poseidon 4521528 our town every nurses at Grace plan anniversary open 9 9 daily i it holidays noon6 no appointments required i 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activity based learning Contact the schools for further billboard announcements for this column should be mailed to Bill Winnipeg free fourth 300 Cartton r3c 3c1 they Are made free of Winnipeg North women meets at tuesday in the Kildonan motor 2100 main the fort Garry school division holds an Art show tuesday to May 28 in the South Wood the Manitoba Alz Heimer society meets at tuesday in the Lions Portage Avenue at Sherbrook the Canadian inter Faith network holds a Public forum at tuesday in room Lockhart University of Winni the Garden Grove Parent association Happy birthday to a meets at very special 39 tuesday in Garden and holding m atm Hannd Matilda harder Grove 2340 Burrows Quintoria care for you your clothes at fifteen Winnipeg new cuss location room 55 Grain Exchange building 167 Lombard 12 noon from on registration weekly fee Call 9424284 4524138 Jason Reece Matthews Happy first birthday May 16 heres to Jason a num Ber one son who loads of laughter and tons of fun May he have Many More years As great As the first one and Mommy and the Winnipeg inter National childrens festival requires Volun Teers for the May 28 to june 1 Contact the group at suite 222 Osborne Street the Canadian National Institute for the Blind has issued an urgent Appeal for Volun Teer readers to Tran scribe books onto Contact the Marianne Roscoe has been elected president of the Boniface diocesan Council of the Catholic women league of other of tiers Are Nadine Catalano and Marie vice presidents Margaret Silver Thome and Teonie secretaries and Frances the Transcona minor hockey association is accepting applications for tier ii Contact 79 White Shell r2c parents John Rosemond effeminate boys parents badly need counselling write to Ann Landers care of the Winnipeg free if you request a personal include a stamped self addressed news America Syndicate q i am a teacher and this concerns one of my a 10yearold fifth Grade boy with pronounced effeminate he prefers to play with girls and is fascinated by women hair styles and other female Hes an object of ridicule at school his Mother catches a lot of flak from his the dad is most disappointed at the Way his Only son is turning the boy talks to me a lot about the rejection he feels from both his classmates and his father but i really dont feel qualified to counsel All i can do is lend a Friendly my questions 1 what is the likelihood of the boy developing into a homosexual 2 if it is is there a possibility that therapy can help him Tum around or is it too late a based on your id say chances Are considerably better than average the boy will eventually become but keep in mind that personality and behavioural characteristics during childhood Are unreliable predictors of an individuals later sexual contrary to the prevailing effeminate and Homo sexual dont necessarily go hand in the boys fascination with makeup and women clothing is actually the More significant warning no reason to Transfer individual therapy probably do much More for the boy than help him Cope with the ridicule and something youre already since the boy trusts you and feels Comfort Able with i see no reason to Transfer to someone dont underestimate your ability to give this boy sound if you dont take it upon yourself to cure him of his effeminate youre As qualified As anyone to talk with a Friendly ear is just what he its the parents who could truly Benefit from the father is verbally aggressive toward the partly out of but in actuality his anger is a defence mechanism that masks deep seated feelings of guilt and id guess the father further projects his feeling of failure by blaming his wife for the boys the More rejecting and verbally aggressive the father is toward his the More the Mother acts this not Only serves to strengthen the boys identification with his but further alienates him from his a vicious Circle the closer the boy gets to his the angrier the father gets and the More he blames his wife for the the result is the feminine Side of the boys nature increasingly comes to dominate his masculine what the boy needs More than anything else is an accepting relationship with his therein lies whatever possibility still exists of helping the boy develop better self esteem and a More appropriate sexual the father needs to realize his fears Are the More angry and rejecting he the less effective he is As a role the needs to understand her Protection is As much a part of the family problem As her husbands the guilt both parents feel needs to be All these issues Are much too explosive to be handled outside of and the situation has obviously deteriorated past the Point where these people can turn things around on their if you have any influence whatsoever with these encourage them to talk with a professional with adolescence time is of the the views expressed Are those of the a family psychologist in private practice in North although Rosemond welcomes suggestions for future he cannot treat specific problems by readers should con sult their own Send your column ideas to him at the Charlotte to Box ;