Winnipeg Free Press

Winnipeg Free Press (Newspaper) - October 20, 1995, Winnipeg, Manitoba Winnipeg free october 1995 a 7 kids with Low self esteem need help to hold Heads High she walks Down the hallway with her earplugs in because that Way she cant hear what the other kids Are saying about her eyes Are she Doest she looks a Little different from her although its hard to say exactly socially and she she is a frequent tar get of taunts and hurtful com sometimes she skips school but her teachers and parents Are in Good Contact so she cant get away with this scenario could apply just As easily to a every Day kids who Are rejected by their Peers live in quiet these Are kids who feel stupid and unit who View themselves As who cant make the social connections that most kids take for these Are kids who live with the inner conviction that they Are fail their limited self esteem takes a daily battering that makes them More vulnerable to exploitation by other kids and furniture galleria is closed Pom Viil Winnipeg bist furniture store just got better coming october 26 what can and other significant adults in the Childs life do to help prevention is the Best the relationship style that is most Likely to develop a protective self esteem in kids is one that combines realistic expectations and an appropriate level of Freedom with an open communication their individuality has to be recognized their unique combi nation of personality talents and comparisons with others achievements Arent help Ful but comparisons with self that illustrate Progress reinforce feel Ings of self Worth and increase motivation for further expectations should be geared to capabilities so that goals Are but require Effort to get dont accept the Calvin and Hobbes philosophy that the secret to Good self esteem is to lower expectations to the Point where there already kids who have Good self esteem will still make mistakes but rather than being they learn from them and try making change requires taking and what about the kids who Are doing the taunting can they be helped to accept individual differences and to understand what its like to stand in someone else shoes part of the answer is that we As adults need to look at the example we Are we too critical do we use put Downs or do we Demon Strate a willingness to try to under stand other Peoples behaviour a positive relationship with an adult or two can be a powerful tool for changing childrens perception of themselves and schools Are places where children have multiple opportunities to form those kinds of in my work As a school Psychol Ive met Many teachers who have gone the extra mile the High school English teacher who keeps her classroom open for kids at the special education teacher who helps a student improve her appearance and there fore her social the teacher who runs an Early morning chess the coach who Wel comes the awkward 14yearold to his football the elementary school teacher who celebrates the iwf0 Mill Imp special Educa Tion Ifyu chech off of it Atee a corf 6riaftce your cow needs my child seemed to develop More slowly than other children toilet tying i my child has difficulty concentrating in school and at my child seems to need my help to do the simplest my child sometimes loses control and gets angry with other my child Doest seem to enjoy school at All Hes frustrated by the school my Childs teacher has suggested that he might Benefit from special Edu my family has a history of learning my child has serious ear infections As a my child is extremely impatient when he cant figure things source the school solution by Paul Kropp and Lynda accomplishments of her special needs student within the Childs the guidance counsellor who says Call me this weekend and let me know How things Are All these actions convey a Strong message to kids that they some of them hold up their Heads a Little higher As a Linda guse has a doctorate in psychology and works As a school psychologist at child guidance lessons published each is a column open 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