Winnipeg Free Press

Winnipeg Free Press (Newspaper) - May 26, 1997, Winnipeg, Manitoba Winnipeg free May proper etiquette brings some order to harried lives continued from c1 0 k i think we could use More Eti he maybe its a bit but i like pulling out a chair for a woman or an elderly i like holding doors for anyone male or old fashioned is the Way discussions of etiquette Are often Post herself not to mention judgmental or the word is very Misander says who took Over the family business when her Mother Elizabeth retired in it really is a code of behaviour based on thoughtfulness and but that not to say the code Doest change with the Post she has added new sections on cyberspace religious third and fourth wed casual work Days and inter National writing an updated etiquette guide has meant paying attention to changes in values and Post takes her cues from the letters she receives As a columnist for Good housekeeping Magazine and from callers to phone in snowboarding i tried to really Mirror the world we live she i even put in it sounds but there Are courtesies even dealing with though gracious and Unflat even the doyenne of decency can be Post recalls a recent question pitched at her on a Toronto radio when a caller asked is it improper or rude to take photos of the deceased in a cof Fin she didst and said cautioning that matters of taste such As this often depend on individual there Are lots of times when theres no particular she a lot of etiquette is about common that Doest Stop people from seeking the answers from recognized authorities such As Post and Amy or even in Maga Zines like town and Post recognizes she has taken the role of spokeswoman at the Emily Post Institute at a time when etiquette and protocol Are almost there Are Many Arti cles being written about the sub and she especially on wedding she also cites examples of Eti Quette classes for children in big City or in High school corporate executives and hotels Are keen to be sensitive to multicultural and even Busi Ness schools Are coaching mba candidates on polish and Good Man everyone thinks its just Silver says or that in some old and when it comes to the actual business of few know it better than local restaurateur Milan owner of the posh we Are Here to assist our Cus but i think there is some he describing the Way some diners get embarrassed about ordering the right or using the Correct but i didst come from the Royal family to i had to learn firm hand table manners and Bodiroga were taught with a firm hand at his childhood Home in the former he our hectic world pre vents today parents from spend ing As much time disciplining and guiding its not people its a pressure that imposed on the situation we live he definitely there is a conflict Between younger and older generations Cul younger business executives Tell him they prefer a game of Pool and casual restaurants to Fine even if the Price tag is the the Prospect of donning a jacket and tie and facing that replica Cartier door aunts some he even though there is no dress code at his if patronage has slipped at his restaurant during the mealtime manners have Occa diners Are even too some people Call waiters says maitre d Gino Post advises this is not not every client is a Prince even if the Duchess of York did recently Dine there Dur ing her Stop in when rudeness rears its ugly Gian Nini smiles some people make it difficult for you to be Nice to he says so there snobby or Nasty you just go about your taking the High advises is usually the Best policy when facing it reflects Well upon the gracious and builds coping i think a lot of people believe Eti Quette can give them she it brings order to our As for he demurs when asked to spill the Beans on any Ter Rible table manners or rudeness he might have witnessed during the i dont like to he dropping his sometimes its better not to say than i dont want to insult 1 service 4x6 Glossy prints 24 Only Peterson says he is considering cutting Back because of the toll it takes after his 1993 a cd of Beautiful music jazz buddies record tribute to a legend a tribute to Oscar Peter at the town Hall a those jazz legends sure know How to throw a pianist Oscar Peterson is surrounded by friends old and new in a 13 tune set dedicated to old friends and colleagues like Ray Brown Herb Ellis Clark Terry Niels Hen Ning orsted Pedersen and Shirley Horn vocals join with younger musicians like protege Benny Green Lewis Nash Drums and Roy Hargrove Flugel Horn to make Beautiful Milt Jackson vibes plays on his own bags Groove and Willow weep for Stanley Turrentine Tenor sax turns up the heat and the Manhattan Transfer sings on two of is the highlight even among this array of he hinted in a recent downbeat inter View that he is considering retiring from performing because of the toll it takes after his 1993 saying he wants his every performance to be this october 1996 trib Ute hosted by the Jackie Robin son foundation and Tel arc is just Brown and Ellis were the first great Oscar Peterson Trio in the and show they still have the spark when they kick off the set with jazz Chris Smith anything goes with a Little help from drummer there is a nod to an Early Peterson Nat King with a rendition of get your kicks on route get your kicks with this Donald swing impulse Alto saxophonist Donald Harrison mixes up his rhythms Here hip and to name a few swings All the there is the bebop of Christopher the slowed Down motown sound of sincerely and the restful new Harrison is an established with stints As a jazz leading bands with Terence Blanchard and albums under his own including straight ahead jazz and this cd is designed to meld the musical styles the new Orleans native has encountered Over his Harrison is backed Here by Anthony a great piano and either Christian Mcbride or Rueben get 24 exposure double prints for Only real time May vary Wmk Mcm in w doting Jum your Best value in photofinishing Rodgers on Bass and Carl Allen or Dion Parson on Drums a potent mix either it May be called Nouveau but it just Plain swings most of the Bill Blue note the title tells the tale Here on drummer Bill stewarts second Blue note release As a Leader he has gathered a group of improvisers to play the kind of open material that either soars or disintegrates into pre we get the former on this seven of the nine compositions Are stewarts included Are monks rhythm Aning and Jackie mcleans Little known for his work with guitarist John Scofield As Well As his captures the spirit of the late Tony Williams with his lightning reflexes and Loose Stewart is backed by Larry Grenadier Bill Carrothers Steve Wilson Alto and Soprano saxophones and Seamus Blake Tenor the drummer performed at last years jazz Winnipeg festival As part of the Blue note Al stars in what was perhaps the hottest show of the this album shows his continued Progress As a monday cup playoffs Colorado Avalanche at Detroit red wings empty show Femme abducted a fathers abducted a fathers pulse Stanley finales de 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